I used to buy for about 30-35 people. I have three children, only two are married now. My ex DIL had two sons that I would get a little something for, but I quit before Jay got divorced. They never even said thank you, and were smart aleck about what I did buy. Now I have three grandkids. And I would give to several friends, too. I didn't buy just one gift for anyone. It was at least 4 or 5 things to most people. This year I am cutting down some more. I don't know if I will be giving N anything. I think this relationship as it once was is over. So nothing for him and his family. I always ask my kids and grandkids what they want. I can give my son in law a gift card to Starbucks, and he is thrilled. I think this year it will be for my immediate family and maybe my two grand nieces. It is just too expensive to buy for so many. I know one thing my DD has asked for is an apron. We are big girls, and the ones you buy have the "bibs" that are too small. Jay loves a certain kind of pizza, so I might do a gift card to Pizza King for him, as well as a few smaller things. The twins b/d is five weeks before Christmas and Steve's is three weeks after, so I also have those three b/ds to plan for. sigh...